A Simple Path to Grow in Your Relationship with God

If you’ve ever wondered where to begin…
or how to move beyond routine into a real relationship with God—
this roadmap will guide you step by step.

Each step builds on the next, helping you grow in consistency, understanding, and connection with Him.

Start where you are… and simply take the next step.

My Journey from Routine to Relationship

For years, I approached spiritual growth as a checklist. I knew I should read my Bible, pray, and spend time with God, so I faithfully went through the motions. Yet despite all my effort, something was missing. I longed for a deeper relationship with God, but often found myself stuck in routine and wondering why my spiritual life felt dry and stagnant.

Over time, God gently showed me that spiritual growth is not about checking off religious duties. It is about knowing Him. As I learned to move beyond performance-based religion and pursue an authentic relationship with Christ, my time with God became less about obligation and more about connection.

This spiritual growth roadmap grew out of that journey. The seven steps below reflect practical lessons God has taught me along the way. Whether you are just beginning your walk with Him or longing to deepen an existing relationship, my prayer is that these resources will encourage you to take the next step toward knowing God more deeply.

How to Use This Roadmap

Wherever you are in your spiritual journey, these seven steps will help you move from routine religion to a deeper relationship with God. Work through them in order, taking time to practice each step before moving to the next.

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7 Steps to Grow Closer to God

Spiritual growth rarely happens all at once. Instead, God often leads us one step at a time. Each of the resources below addresses a different aspect of developing a vibrant relationship with God. I encourage you to work through them in order, taking time to practice each principle before moving on to the next.

Hands folded in prayer over an open Bible, symbolizing the importance of reading Bible and praying every day.

Step 1 - Build the Habit

Discover why daily time with God is the foundation of a thriving spiritual life.

a woman reading the Bible outside.

Step 2 - Discover the Purpose

Move beyond routine and learn how Bible study and prayer cultivate a genuine relationship with God.

Four individuals yawning, symbolizing how Bible reading can feel boring without fresh perspective

Step 3 - Learn To Hear God's Voice

Transform Bible reading from a duty into a life-giving conversation with God and discover how Scripture can become fresh and personal again.

Bible open with light shining on pages, symbolizing meditation on Scripture

Step 4 - Learn to Meditate

Learn how to slow down, reflect on Scripture, and allow God’s Word to transform your heart and mind.

Woman reading Bible outdoors and staying focused during prayer in nature

Step 5 - Deepen Your Prayer Life

Discover practical ways to overcome distractions and experience more meaningful conversations with God.

Man sitting at a desk writing his prayer in a journal.

Step 6 - Record Your Journey

Learn how prayer journaling can deepen reflection, strengthen faith, and help you recognize God’s leading in your life.

Man kneeling in a desert, symbolizing spiritual hunger and thirst for God

Step 7 - Cultivate a Deeper Hunger

Cultivate a growing desire for God and discover how daily spiritual practices can draw you closer to Him.

Spiritual Growth Book Engaging with God cover by Janet F. Salazar

Continue the Journey

Discover how God can transform performance-based religion into a vibrant relationship with Him.

Remember, spiritual growth is a lifelong journey, not a destination. There will be seasons of excitement and seasons when growth feels slow, but God is faithful in every stage. Don’t become discouraged if progress seems gradual. Simply continue seeking Him day by day, trusting that He who began a good work in you will carry it to completion (Philippians 1:6).

And if you’d like encouragement and practical tools along the way, I invite you to join me below as we continue this journey together.